THE BUTTERFLY EVOLUTION OF BEING A MOM
 I am ‘Mom’     Called out by my children in their need, in their joy, in their suffering    From their little voices calling out endlessly,   I hear them and wrap them in the cocoon of my love:     “Mom, look at me!”  “Mom, I need you!”  “Mom, I love you!” “Mom…..”     To teen anguish and enthusiasm,   I watch as their wings break through the cocoon:     “Mom, I need a hug.”  “Mom, I can do it on my own.”   “Mom, can you please go away?”    “Mom, can you help me?”   “Mom, can you take me to….”    “Mom, can I go…..”  “Mom, let me show you this…”  “Mom…….”     To mature voices, calling out to me as they use their wings to fly:     “Mom, I’ve been accepted at…” “Mom, I’m going to….”   “Mom, I’m getting married….”  “Mom, we’re having a baby!”   “Mom…..”     The intentional evolution completed     I joyfully watch my children fly on their own and     every now and then our wings touch… 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋 On December 25, 2023 I received a beautiful gift from my daughter, Evelyn Joy Hoelscher....