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ALL YOUR TEARS

  The funeral ripped my emotional interior apart. I felt shredded into pieces of different color cloth  all representing mixtures of anger, grief, fear of my own death, deep sadness, extreme loss, emptiness  and other unnamed feelings.  I wept and raged at God for taking this friend.    I was observed by others.  Later a young woman asked, "Do you believe you should cry out all your tears and all your grief at one time and get it over with?" I said, "No." You cry uncontrollably in the beginning. Then you cry at anniversaries and birthdays, holidays and special events. Then you cry when you hear a certain song, smell a certain smell, hear a word that reminds you this person you loved can no longer be seen with human eyes. You cry without apologizing.  You cry for what will never be again in this lifetime.  And    In the midst of          All your tears,               You keep on living.  Sara Fontana, 2005           

BONE OF MY BONE: Where women's strength comes from....

My husband's and my morning routine includes pouring our preferred morning caffeine and then going to our respective morning spaces.  He brings coffee with him to a lounge chair in our bedroom and I bring tea to a lounge chair in the living room.  After about an hour of separate prayer and morning reading we get together to stretch and do light weight lifting while listening to the scripture reading for the day using Laudate app on our Iphones.   Thursday of the Fifth Week in Ordinary Time the first reading was from Genesis 2:18-25.  The day before we had heard in Genesis how God formed man out of the clay of the ground.  This day we heard about how God was concerned: "It is not good for the man to be alone.  I will make a suitable partner for him."  So God formed out of the ground various wild animals and various birds of the air and brought them to the man but none proved to be the suitable partner for the man.  So the Lord God cast a deep sleep on the man and while he

SUICIDE OF A VETERAN

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  SUICIDE OF A VETERAN Dedicated to Sean Leahy, my nephew   A Veteran             Strong, outer presence             Crumbling inside   Insights within             Moments of clarity             Authenticity with self and others             Is interior strength possible?   Constant, relentless             Visions, thoughts             Tearing at the insight             Breaking down strength within   Crumbling inside seeps outward             The strong outer presence begins to crumble   “You would be better off without me…”   Offering the ultimate sacrifice, The battle ends with gunfire.   Sara Fontana December 3, 2022    

Can you complete the Armor of God Family Challenge?

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  SARA FONTANA presents an ARMOR OF GOD Family Challenge.... Take up the Armor of God challenge in your family. Print out this blog and use it for Faith Conversations and discussion during the month.   Discuss one piece of armor du ring dinner and use the Faith Conversation questions & tips listed below to have a discussion on how you, your child and your family can put on and use that part of the armor of God. Watch the Armor of God YouTube video with your children https://youtu.be/KxBHEkEzT3M Armor of God Song by BearHug band Research has shown that families who make the time to have family dinners together and have Faith Conversations with their children raise up adults who stand strong in their faith. The challenge, should you choose to accept it, is to have faith conversations in your family centered on Ephesians 6:10-18 which gives us direction on putting on the full armor of God so that we can "take our stand against the devil's schemes. For our struggle is not a

DON'T GIVE UP ON ME

       St. Patrick used Celtic symbols like a Celtic knot to explain God’s love. In the same way Christians today can take secular love songs and use them to remind us of God’s love. I have done just that throughout my ministry with teens and families and even for myself personally. I have taken songs that are heard on secular radio stations and placed a Christian thought on the words of the song. That happened to me when I heard DON’T GIVE UP ON ME by Andrew Gramer.       Not soon after the Uvalde shooting a friend of mine sent me the YouTube video of Gramer singing the song with students. I cried as I watched it. I found a YouTube with the words of the song and watched that one and cried again as I imagined Jesus stepping into my great grief and sadness saying to me, and to all of us… No matter what this world will throw. It won’t shake me [Jesus] loose. I’ll reach my hands out in the dark and wait for yours to interlock. I’ll wait for you.   Jesus waits and invites us to reach out o

The "Cross-bow" of a Bullseye Marriage - Our 40th Anniversary Reflection

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  On August 8, 1981 we exchanged our marriage vows at St. Edmonds Catholic Church in Lafayette, Louisiana. We asked Fr. Fred Reynolds, S.J., the main presider at our wedding, to choose the Gospel reading for the mass.  He chose St. Luke’s story of Jesus riding into Jerusalem and people laying palms before him.  He shared, in his homily, that that is a strange reading for a wedding, but not a Christian wedding where a man and woman stand before witnesses and die to themselves in order to be resurrected as a couple set apart for the service and worship of God.  Together they take up their cross of living out the Sacramental mystery. The Icon Fr. Fred gave us to commemorate our wedding is a constant reminder of that celebration and his words to us. Through the cross is new life and joy in marriage.  There have been temptations, distractions and incredibly hard times. We have gotten through these times by following Fr. Fred’s encouragement to recognize the mystical presence of Jesus in eac

DICHOTOMY

A prayer chain. A chain that captures a person, persons or event in thoughts and words lifted to God. A prayer chain. Intended to surround a person, persons or event with intense love. A prayer chain. Pleading words that God's love be manifested in the world and true freedom be realized within the person, persons or event that the prayer chain captures.   DICHOTOMY